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      Hi guys, the incident that has happened to me. I still get real bad headaches here and then. I still cant sleep most nights because I stay up watching it over and over again.
Most people think action toward the girl, like community service or juvenile hall or atleast behavior school. I stopped going to the doctors because they started to charge me. No lawyers have helped me well enough.
So me and my mom are going to take action. We are looking to sue her and her parents but in order to do that I need her info to mail her the letter to notify her that I'm seeing.  If any one can get me any info ... her adress
Full name is Rosita Sandoval.

I know I recently haven't updated nothing and that's because a lot in my life has occurred. My mom and I had a big argument. at the end i ended up moving out. I can truly say i am on my own now i don't really advice it to any teen to leave but i would understand. Being on my own has been hard but i think I'm finding myself more and more as days go on. I found a good guy that can support me emotionally. I would love to say thank you to him. Also my good friend that's helping stay with her. to my step mom her daughter thank you all.

Leaving home can be the solution depending on your  situation but in my case I just wanted to be alone and on my own but also some family problems. I am not writing this to make you feel bad for me but to let you know that if u go through something like this or even the bullying stuff i am open to hear about you.

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How to Help Your Child Stand Up to a Bully Without Getting Beaten Up

http://www.nannypro.com/blog/how-to-help-your-child-stand-up-to-a-bully-without-getting-beaten-up/

by Michelle

Once upon a time, bullying was regarded as a natural part of childhood and frequently attributed to “kids being kids.” These days, however, bullying is making headlines. Awareness of bullying and the inherent dangers it can pose has risen dramatically, but that doesn’t stamp the problem out altogether. With modern technology making it easier than ever for bullies to access their victims around the clock, it’s important for a parent to understand and recognize signs of bullying. Bullying can range from physically attacking someone to verbally assaulting them and from gossiping about people to cyber bullying them. Cyber bullying includes harassing or intimidating behavior via emails, text messages or social media sites. Because you can’t protect your child from everything she’ll encounter when you’re not there with her, it’s best to teach your child appropriate ways of avoiding such encounters or, if necessary, standing up to a bully without physical retaliation.

Recognize

Children who are bullied are at an increased risk of depression, anxiety and low self-esteem. According to a study published in the Archives of Pediatric Medicine, children who are bullied are also more likely to contemplate suicide. If you notice your child complaining of aches and pains as a way of avoiding school, or if you notice abnormal bumps and bruises, it’s time to start asking questions. If they can’t explain certain injuries, missing articles of clothing or poor school performance, a bully might be the culprit. If your child is old enough to use social media sites, check in with them in regards to online accounts as well. Set boundaries and request access to the sites if things aren’t adding up.

Vocalize

If you suspect that your child is being bullied, start a conversation that allows him to speak freely without fear of judgment. Encourage him to speak up about his concerns regarding what’s going on at school. Ask him to describe the occurrences, how often they happen and who is involved. Ask him if any other children or adults have witnessed the accounts and find out what he has done so far to try and stop the bullying. Brainstorm ideas of how to avoid encountering harassing situations. Involve your child in this conversation; it will help them visualize appropriate ways of responding to a pestering bully. Be supportive in the discussion, but remain calm. It might be heart wrenching to hear your child talk openly about these types of situations, but it is important to be a calm influence, rather than another angry voice.

Socialize, Mobilize, Empathize

Encourage your child to stick with a group of friends when walking home from school, riding the bus or eating lunch in the cafeteria. Let your child know that it’s okay to ask adults or other school officials to accompany them. Bullies tend to target kids that stand out. Encouraging new hobbies and interests might help your child make new friends and find a circle of people with similar interests. If the bully is persistent, don’t endorse verbal retaliation or physical violence.  Teach them and encourage them to maintain their composure, tell them to turn and walk away. Children start to learn to empathize at an early age. Encouraging your child to empathize with the bully is a way of teaching compassion. If compassion is present, forgiveness is soon to follow, which can remove much of the emotional burden of being bullied. At the very least, it may help reduce the long term psychological effects of having been bullied as a child.

Follow-Up

Keep checking in with your child, even if it seems the bullying has subsided. Sometimes kids will become embarrassed that the harassment has continued and may feel both hopeless to stop it and mortified that they are repeatedly a target. Keep the lines of communication open. If the bullying hasn’t ceased, contact the appropriate authorities. Getting the school principal, bus driver or class teacher involved and aware of the problem is a good start, and will provide extra sets of eyes and ears when you can’t be with your child. It is also worth an attempt to contact the parents of the bully. Be prepared for a defensive response or outright denial, however. Many parents find it difficult or impossible to believe that they could raise a bully and may refuse to accept the situation on principle. By making them aware of the problem and attempting to calmly enlist their help in remedying the difficult situation your child is in, you may be able to get the parents of your child’s bully involved in a way that will have a lasting impact.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JUAN

Yesterday was an important day. It was my cousin quinceañero. This picture shows him and I. Even though I am a little bit older I look up to him. He also was a great support with all my family through my rough time with me being bullied. 

So Happy Birthday Juan. Hope your wishes come true. Your party was great.

Thanks for this nice letter.

Dear Jessica!

A member of my team mentioned you posted a link to "Hey Bully!" on your blog.
I hope you enjoyed the song.  

Having visited your blog today, I felt compelled to write to you and express
how courageous you are to be taking this important stand. 

As a dad (Ariel, Zoey and Eli are the oldest of my five children),
I had to turn off the video of your ordeal.  It was heartbreaking.

Stay strong and beautiful and continue to fight the good fight!

I, like many others, am inspired by your efforts.

Best,

Matt

Casting Calls for the Quinceañera Magazine Miss Cover

I went to the casting calls for the Quinceañera Magazine Miss Cover Girl 2013 pageant.

I am really excited ti be competing in it again. I really hope to win this time it will mean so much to me modeling, doing pageants, doing interviews in radio stations. 

And receiving professional help has all been so helpful.  What happened to me will always be in the the back of my head but doing the pageant right really helps not thinking about it as much.

Thanks to the support of my family and friends I'm more emotionally stable.

!Happy new years!

My new years was a good night. I spent my time with my family and had dinner all together.

I know me seeing the video over and over again doesn't help but Its there and I been sitting at home lately watching it over and over. I try my best to over come it but my head aches remind me that its because of what happened.

My goals for this year are to participate in more pageants and in the modeling world. Which all take my mind of it. And I just want to say thank you to all my blog viewers.

!Happy new years!

STOP BULLYING

Stop Bullying

Today I realized that some people still talk about what happened to me.
 Some feel bad and others laugh or make fun of. When in reality they don't know how much it still hurts me.
 I know its been a little while now but I think that's something i'll never forget in a bad way. Up to this day I am still receiving treatment. I'm catching up on my school work finally. I can say God has been truly helping me through this rough journey.

It is my birthday!

THE CYBER BULLYING VIRUS

KIDS REACT TO BULLYING

BULLYING IS FOR LOSERS. YES!

My passion while I am focused and fighting vs bullying

A person that has been a victim of bullying he/she should be focused in something that they really enjoy.

One of my passions is everything that has to do with modeling and photographs.

Living Bullying was a phase very difficult, but the best thing to do is always to seek an alternative or a via of escape that help you to surpass the harassment or school harassment.

I share with you some pictures. This is my passion and I am focused and fighting vs bullying.

Mexico is in the first place to international scale in the school harassment cases number ("bullying") in secondary level.

In Mexico 7 of each 10 children and youths have suffered bullying in some phase of their school life.

According to the accusations received the 60% are attacking women.

190 cases of suicide in the Federal District by bullying in the 2009.

The 57% of the polled they say that damage does them more what the others they say of them, because of it the bullying verbal affects seriously.

The 36,7% of the polled they say that the students to should put an end to the bullying against the 12% that says that are the teachers who should do it.

The 89,4% of the polled they say that to value you to you same protects you of the bullying. *Source: Foundation in Movement, TO.C.

The 86,2% of the polled they say that the violent caricatures cause they are you violent.

The 27% of the students they consider that the patio without teacher is the place where more bullying occurs and in second place with 26% the parlor without teacher.

SYMPTOMS OF THE BULLYING

A boy/ girl that is suffering bullying surely already knows it, although the surest thing is that have counted nothing to nobody.  

This occurs because they feel shame and itself do not they dare to count it to him/her to its environment for which this can think of him. Nevertheless, there are different symptoms that all we can observe and that can help us to identify it in other people to be able to offer them our aid. 

These symptoms are:

Changes in the state of spirit, that in most cases they are presented like sadness Isolation of their environment Anxiety, which reflects themselves in fears, tics nervous, irritability and even regressive conducts as to be done pis in the bed are used to being absent minded, as absent, forgetful, etc.  
They pretend illnesses or inconveniences for go not to the school present bruises, blows or injuries lack to the school and do not give coherent explanations.
They do not have friends 
Their school performance begins to diminish
They have feelings of guilt 
They present drop self-esteem and even depression

Hey Bully!

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Fight Against Bullying

After the attack happened I felt really embarrassed depressed, angry, confused as to why it had 
happened. When i realize that no one had help me up or stop the girl from beating me it wasn't because they didn't want to; but because they were scared too.

I been getting a lot of attention from friends and family. I talked to a lot of people who experienced it. They let me know that it gets better, to cheer up and to turn this negative situation into a positive one.

Today I have a lot of force of will and I go to utilize my experience to help other youths that passed through the same thing that I went through.